This is just my personal opinion and I am open to suggestions. But here is why I think there are a lot of single and looking Asians women in New York City.
Reason #1: YOU are CRAZY! Yes I am an Asian woman too but I have to admit there is some degree of craziness in us. Why? Because we tend to fantasize this perfect man exists on earth and one day we will finally be with him. So even though these women have tons of suitors, they turn them away and wait for the next “supposedly perfect” guy to appear. Guess what? The perfect dude never shows up and hence these single ladies remain single. Symptoms include ladies complaining about their date’s height, income, look, sense of humor, sense of fashion, sense of direction, wealth, family, dogs, body odor, where they live, what car they drive and their teeth.
Reason #2: You act so desperately to find a boyfriend/husband that you make yourself look like the last item in Clearance Sale that is either getting SOLD eventually or getting DUMPed. You might not think you are putting out but our Martians already smell it like a feet away. Symptoms include constant calling your date about trivial things such as what brand of TP you should buy, what kind of deodorant you should use, and what TV channel he is currently watching. Also, you appear in every single meetup or networking event and do not miss talking to every guy at the parties. Guys would think you are acting like you need to sell yourself NOW.
Reason #3: You dress/look like your grandma. Ladies, please. Look at yourself in the mirror before you head out. I have seen beautiful girls out at parties wearing styles from the 70s or cover up every inch of their skin like she wants to hide some big scars behind those clothes. Or worse, they have damaged hair or untouched toenails. It is unfortunate to say yes, men are shallow. But aren’t we all? So it is important to leave a good impression. You don’t need to dress like a slut but dressing like an old crazy cat lady won’t help either.
So if you are a single asian lady in the house, let me know your thoughts.